I normally write about my thoughts, ideas and general mommy stuff. Tonight I felt the need to get some stuff off my chest so here it goes……..What I hate about divorce…This has been a trying year to say the least but what I hate and despise the most are the lies that one person can create to make themselves look good. Should I care? No because those on the other end must be missing brain cells to entertain constant nonsense! My question is why the constant lying? If your new life is so sweet, why is all of the deception and manipulation necessary? Do you need a scapegoat? because of your worthless behavior. My suggestion – find another one! In my mind the only reason for generating lies is to somehow make yourself look great! If you’re a raggedy spouse so be it but at least you could step up as a father. You want to paint a picture of me that shows you’re excluded from the lives of your children, really? There is a custody agreement with visitation mandated and you chose to stop picking up your children “just because”, who needs your sick drama? You leave your kids unsupervised and the kicker is the babysitting gig so you can go to a party, that makes for a fit parent. Dumb and Dumber is all I can say on that note. Oh and word on the street is that you pay child support, I guess it keeps missing my mailbox! The courts can’t even garnish wages from someone who shows up in court without W2s or chooses to bring only one, really? Just recognize when you book your next trip out of the country, buy another pair of Gucci flip flops, the next generation Ipad– your children still need to eat, require clothes and shoes, incidentals, and extracurricular activities. Oh and I can’t forget the tuition that is paid every month who needs your drama? Also the level of disrespect for the mother of your children has exceeded realistic limits and the nasty text messages with acronyms were real classy and mature. What I say is get a life! Who needs your drama! If you are ready to move on why block the sale of a house you can’t afford? Sale of house = D-I-V-O-R-C-E!
What I have learned real quick is a real man doesn’t need to run his mouth to justify who he is! A real man knows what his children need and provides for them over and beyond. What they don’t need is a parent who makes other people(and their drama) a priority or false promises. Children need love and consistency! You make it so easy to dislike the skin you’re in and no real man do you represent! Who needs your drama?—– We don’t! Toast to a new beginning without drama!