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Inconsistency is Annoying and An Unwelcome Guest for My Adulting

May 13, 2019

Single Life

Post-divorce taught me inconsistency is very annoying. Why is being a mature adult so hard for some individuals? If you are incapable of being consistent with another human being just own it and move on. After an hour conversation with a friend, her words to me were run girl, run. I am sure my intuition has been working overtime trying to figure it all out. This is such a waste of valuable time. Is anyone losing sleep over my well-being? One thing I know for sure is trying to figure out anyone other than myself is a huge waste of time.

Inconsistency

Inconsistency is unproductive especially if it detracts me from real life goals. When I hear people say someone “completes me”, I cringe because this sounds like a person is not whole without someone else. A person’s actions speak volumes. I am no longer interested in words because as the saying goes talk is cheap. There was a discussion on FB tonight about dating and I can agree with people’s aversion to dating.

Who shows up? Does it feel like a room full of imposters? Are there really genuine people? and if so where are they?

Filed Under: Single Mom Chronicles Tagged With: #postdivorce, dating, single, singlelife

Ochocinco – The Ultimate Catch

Jul 12, 2010

Yes I admit my interest in watching this reality show after seeing Chad Ochocinco on Dancing with the Stars.   Although he was no contender on the dance floor, I was moved by his athleticism, sense of humor and gorgeous smile.    After watching for an hour, the verdict is still out for me,  I  turned it off to make dinner.   The show started with 85 women dressed in football jerseys and shorts and before I realized the cutting process began until there were only 17 women left.

I often wonder how much reality is in the dating shows and the participant’s true motivation for being on these shows.  Are the participants really looking for love or a life of luxury and privilege while it lasts.   I really never see the likelihood of finding true love under these circumstances.  After watching the multiple train wrecks on the Bachelor I hope this shows defies the odds of failure and debockery…..

Filed Under: Uncategorized Tagged With: dating, ochocinco, reality show, the ultimate catch

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