Post-divorce taught me inconsistency is very annoying. Why is being a mature adult so hard for some individuals? If you are incapable of being consistent with another human being just own it and move on. After an hour conversation with a friend, her words to me were run girl, run. I am sure my intuition has been working overtime trying to figure it all out. This is such a waste of valuable time. Is anyone losing sleep over my well-being? One thing I know for sure is trying to figure out anyone other than myself is a huge waste of time.
Inconsistency is unproductive especially if it detracts me from real life goals. When I hear people say someone “completes me”, I cringe because this sounds like a person is not whole without someone else. A person’s actions speak volumes. I am no longer interested in words because as the saying goes talk is cheap. There was a discussion on FB tonight about dating and I can agree with people’s aversion to dating.
Who shows up? Does it feel like a room full of imposters? Are there really genuine people? and if so where are they?