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Single on Valentine’s Day is a Good Reason to Celebrate Love for Self

Happy Valentine'sDay

Single on Valentine’s Day

I think I missed the memo that being single on Valentine’s Day is a curse.  During this time each year, I see articles coaching people on how to cope with being single on Valentine’s Day.   Don’t get me wrong I like the idea of celebrating with the one you love.  However, being single on Valentine’s Day is no reason to be sad.  I feel like it gives a reason to celebrate doing something special for yourself.

If You’re an Ex

A few weeks ago I saw on the news how to celebrate Valentine’s Day if you have an ex.  Now there are activities if you have an ex,  a zoo in El Paso Texas allows people to use ex’s name for a cockroach which is then fed to a meerkat.  Hooters offers a  coupon for ten free boneless wings by completing an online quiz and shredding an ex’s picture.   All of this negative energy is no for me.  Just move on and channel this energy to celebrate YOU!

My thoughts as a single woman and the idea of stressing over Valentine’s Day brings a few questions to mind.  What happened to the idea of celebrating love every day? Why is being happy and loved dependent on being in a relationship?  Is it possible to love yourself and love your time alone?  Do we spend enough time loving ourselves?  Are we emotionally and spiritually ready to share with another person?   Why have standards and expectations become irrelevant?

Love Jones

One of my favorite movies is Love Jones.   After watching the movie multiple times, I realized how much I missed in my 20s and 30s.   I know now experiences should have no regrets or settle for less.   My takeaway from the movie is the fact a loving relationship requires time, mutual respect, unconditional love, patience, and work.   It was also eye-opening to see how much time is wasted when we are not clear with expectations.

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My mantra is to CELEBRATE ME every day of the year.

Ways to Treat Yourself for the Month and Beyond

  1. Book a relaxing massage at a local spa
  2. Schedule an appointment for a facial
  3. Plan a treat to a special pedicure and manicure
  4. Order a dozen of roses for the month and for a real splurge order LeFleur roses (on my 50 wishlist)
  5. Buy a box of favorite chocolates(Turtles are my favorite)
  6. Make dinner reservations at a favorite restaurant

Mexican Food and Dining Out at Xolo Tacos with Kids

Mexican food is one of my favorite cuisines. Dining out at XoloTacos was a great night. This is my favorite Mexican restaurant in the area. The food was outstanding with every bite. We capped off dinner with dessert which was worth every calorie.

Every dish had fresh ingredients and the crispy empanadas were outstanding. I cannot wait to visit again and try the Mahi Mahi tacos, soup, a margarita, and dessert.

Mexican Food
Mexican Food
Mexican Food
Mexican Food
Chips and Guacomole
Mexican Food
Empanadas – cheese and picadillo
Mexican Food
Nachos Libres
Mexican Food
Seared Spicy Rock Shrimp Tacos
Mexican Food
Churros and Mexican Hot Chocolate
Mexican Food
Chocolate Ice Cream

How I Save on Shopping at Target with the Cartwheel App

In October 2018, a mini Target opened across the street from us.  Most of my purchases at Target are for essential items like toilet paper, feminine products, body wash, paper towels, napkins, paper plates, and food items.  

I am intentionally using my Cartwheel app on every visit because of the savings.   In addition to saving on specific items, I realized some online prices are lower than the store.   In this case, I ask an associate to adjust the price before I check out.   

If you are a regular Target shopper, it pays to download this app.  The best way is to scan the UPC code on each item as you shop.  

The shop section allows you to shop by category, weekly ad & catalogs, or cartwheel offers. If you click on the cartwheel offers and select a product it will add it to your “My List”.

When I click on “Wallet” I can scan at self-checkout before I hit Pay. If checking out in line, make sure the sales associate knows to scan your code so the savings are deducted.

On the my profile, I can set my store, using the store locator. It alslo lists my online order history, favorite items to track (click on the heart of an item), payment cards, gift cards, ship to addresses, and manage REDcard. Since I started using the app in 2015, I saved $142.66 and redeemed 316 offers.

Journaling & Notebook Doodles Journal Giveaway

 *received journals free of charge for review purposes only.  All opinions shared are my own.

JOURNALING

I remember having a diary as a tween and cherishing every written word. A few years ago, I started keeping a journal but I was not consistent. Do you keep a journal? How do you stay consistent? Journaling is a daily exercise of using a diary or journal to capture ideas and thoughts of life’s events. One of the benefits of journaling is it creates an outline of goals and bringing the goals to reality.

 NOTEBOOK DOODLES

These journals are a perfect gift for a tween girl.   In the new year, journals are great for writing down thoughts, ideas, and setting goals. The journal cover is colorful and artsy. I love that each journal page has insightful statements and questions to encourage girls to write about themselves. It is a wonderful tool for daily inspiration and encouragement. One of the best parts of the journal is the self-confidence building exercises of on each page. Girls can get inspired by writing about their lives, hopes, and dreams. It is like having their own vision board in writing.

The journals are hardbound, 200 pages, acid-free paper that is ideal for pen or pencil.

My twelve-year-old grabbed the Love, Peace, and Music journal.

GIVEAWAY

I am running a giveaway for the “The Dream Big” journal. Good Luck!!!!

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